I just came out to my family please help!!?

You're not screwed, sweety. Omg, I hate it when people go around saying you're bad for being yourself. If you are gay, then that's just who you are! You should try to contact a gay hotline that will talk to you about your worries and your concerns. The kinds of hotline I'm talking about are not the ones where you talk to other gay guys and talk dirty! no... I'm talking about hotlines that help you discuss your sexuality freely and openly. Search for some then call them so you can express your feelings to them. They'll probably make you feel less "like a freak" because truly you're not and this is coming from a straight girl!