Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Why do people say anyone who doesn't believe in god will go to hell?

Some people that I know say that if you do not worship god you will go to hell. But aren't we all allowed do believe in what we want? I don't think it is right to say that to someone. I believe in god but I don't go to church that often and some of my classmates tell me that that's dishonoring god and that he will not love me... isn't that mean?

Should I get my ps3 replaced or keep it?

Well I notices that when I play black ops on my ps3 sometimes it doesn't load as it used to it takes like 5 seconds then it should and earlier when I tried to play zombies kino it didn't load it just staid on a black screen and I had to hold the power sensor on it to completely shut it down it happens twice so the thierd time I took out the game noticed a smudged no bigger then half an inch and wiped it with a cloth put the game back on and it worked fine and the kino map loaded right away.....another thing is that I don't take out my cod game out when I turn it off I just leave it there and turn it on with it in there does that ruin the system

My cat was diagnosed wth FIP, Feline Infection Perotinitis, a deadly disease with any cure for it.?

He always vomiting and suffering from diarrhea on a weekly basis. I feel so sorry for my cat. He's my baby, a great companion and I 'm devastated to see him suffering. How long is he going to live and be miserable? What should I do to him? I need a second opinion from anyone there.

The Sims 3 problem/glitch with the houses?

I'm having this issue with my game where the house looks crazy. As soon as I zoom into the active house from the town map, all the roofs and terrain are like shattered pieces of glass and I can't see beyond/minimize them. Also the house has a huge smudged "tail" that extends way beyond the lot. Is anyone else having this issue? How can I fix it? I tried moving the household out and back in or changing the active household but this problem seems to be with EVERY household.

Since fornication and adultery are the only remaining sins....?

When your God created us,it would have taking no effort to make shure that we would not co mitt sins of that nature.Think about the fact that according to the Bible the first humans created did not abide by Gods law.That is not a recommendation for continued employment.

Hi, I wonder if any 1 can diagnose my symptoms.?

For the past week or so I seem to be urinating a lot more than normal. About 10 times a day. Even if,i dont drink a lot. I have also been gettin a bit of blurred vision and today have felt like I have flu. Any1 know

Best eyeliner and mascara?

I want an eye liner that won't wear off or smudge within 8 hours same with mascara. I also want mascara that makes lashes thicker

I don't know if I was raped or not?

I only use to see my dad when I was little, probably until I was 6 years old- then he kinda left me and my mom, only coming around every once in a while. I haven't seen him for at least 4 years but now I'm 14 and I'm starting to have memories of him raping me.... when I was 12 I started becoming disgusted at the sight on a mans hand and I would even vomit if it became to repulsive for me to handle, that year I was diagnosed with depression and anxiety so now I'm on medication. I can only remember all the vulgar feelings and details of when and IF he did rape me.... I can see my facial expression and his through the whole memory, the only thing is I don't know if my mind is telling me the truth or if this really did happen.... And before I bring it up to my mom I want opinions ....because my mom will freak out even if I say the word rape. It's making me paranoid and depressed, I can't sleep at night, and I have night-mares about it... My memory just isn't clear enough for me to believe though, so I'm really confused. It's got me so down that I almost let myself fail the 8th grade, I started to not care and I started losing my friends until I realized that I need to figure things out and that I can't let something like this ruin my whole life and I know if I have a distorted reality and I open my mouth I can really make my dads life horrible... I can really hurt people if I say something like this and it's not even true....I really need some advice...

Using a tortillian or whatever its called ?

When i handed in my robert patison drawing for my celebrity drawing homework, my art teacher said that it was good, but I should use a tortillian. Can you make them out of paper, cus using my finger makes it look horrible smudged and i have little money.

Ugh sick of my boyfriend saying i wear too much makeup. whats the dealio with him?

Your makeups not too bad.... Maybe your boyfriend really thinks you look better without it! Try not wearing it for a day! Yourr skin will feel soo much healthier and fresher! Trust me I have experience!

Is there something wrong with me?

hi bianca. my name is andre,sorry but know little of english so i need of your help my orkut and_hit@hotmail.com and live the brazil cause im from BRAZIL

Are guys intimidated by me? Pics included...?

Oh my God, you look like you're 13, get that last picture off the internet! What the hell are you thinking? You don't look intimidating, you look frail, weak, and sick

Ive been dating this girl for about 6 months, and things have started changing.?

As i said its been 6 months in the best relationship of my life. Lately though she has started being meaner to me, calling me fat (I've struggled with weight issues in the past) and stupid (I was diagnosed with ADD and general anxiety disorder this year) it doesn't bother me a lot where I get pissed. Its just like if she knows this stuff why is she trying to offend me. The flipside is she can also get very clingy and affectionate. She loves kissing me on the cheek, and cuddling on the couch. She tells me she loves me constantly over the phone and how I'm her world. I'm wondering what she could be going through? Also, if this relationship is worth continuing. Her name calling doesn't bother me im just wondering if you think there's anything wrong? There was also a group of girls that got pissed I asked her out and some still talk to me and you can tell still want me...should I pursue them at the cost of making a huge mistake and breaking my girlfriends heart?. I've helped my girlfriend through her alchoholism, she helped me through dark times when a friend committed suicide. i know this is long and complicated but i need help.

Is it normal...?! i really need help please?

is it normal to still feel a void 2 years after losing a child at 5 months pregnant? when i found out i was pregnant i told my ex's sister, he found me and beat the tar out of me and i lost my baby... they had a hard time with diagnosing as i had just had a baby in feb and found out in may... i started bleeding that night and went to the ER.. they told me there was no heartbeat and that i had lost my baby... however they never told me if my precious lil angel was a girl or boy no matter how many times i asked... when i called the next day (after some rest) they told me they could not find my records... to this day my records are still "missing"...i have this emptiness in my heart now 2 years later.. my husband (now) tells me that i am trying to fill that void and caught myself doing it as well... sometimes at night i will cry myself to sleep or like tonight sit here and wonder what did i have? was it a beautiful lil girl or a handsome lil boy? i was due on new years eve, my baby would have been 2 this year! i get very depressed when i think about this... my husband does not want anymore children and i am wondering if maybe that has something to do with the emptiness also... somebody please help.. how do i deal with this? is this normal? anybody have any advice??? thank you in advance

Why are so called angels always the answer to life problems.?

like millions of others i have personal problems that make life just a big dollop of misery. I wont go into that but i have searcched for answers and the only thing anyone can come up with is get the help of amgels. You see i believe my life was stollen (call it energy if you like) and now im what some call low/misserable. I have really had enough becasue all the doors are closed in life except to the so called angels. Oh by the way i do not believe in any god, godess, angel or demon. I believe in myself. But that in itself seems to be the problem. I have no faith as i believe fath is just another word like Hope. Its empty. It basically says (in my view) trust that the solution will come etc. The only solution here is most definitely money. And the world has made it wuite clear that i will never have any of that. Instead i get the option to have faith. Like patience the end result is always nil. I know ive experienced it all. I was the guy who worked double hard to attain some modicum of success in life but when i started to succeed, everything went wrong. I started thinking of ways to protect myself from people. As i had always been a giver, i made people laf and was alwaysconfident and postitive. After 35 years hard work to end with nothing and a whole lot less i began scrutinizing everything. Government, officials, big business etc care only for themselves. People are all subject to them so are of a certain type. ie were all just getting along which in my view is a farse. Were made to compete agaoinst each other and out of that one is either honoured or dishonoured. braqnded a winner or looser. They say dont judge but im constantly being judged, i wasnt good enough so now im on the scrap pile. The world has done with me now ive slaved away from them. Ive been tyranised threatened and bullied all of my life. (i dont mean beat up here, i mean FORCED to slave away for nothing and now those same people, the bullies knock on my door wanting to help me? By the way theyre called mental health. Noone alive knows me as i do within or without, even those that wrote the psycological books etc, im not in any book yet they know me, or so they think. Whose making the judgement there? Both my parents died within the past 2-3 years and because of the harassment ive recceive from officials i havent even mourned my parents passing. In short life to me is now diabolical. As for people well i cross the road if someones coming my way, not because im ashamed that i dont take care of myself but because i WILL NOT joint the masses with their acceptance of what is. Every part of life in my view is corrupted by those who hold and keep all the money and power to themselves to make sure people are reliant for a crust. Il admit the only thing i care about in this world now is money and i want that just so i can buy a house in the middle of nowhere away from everyone. Il give an example of the corruption: that guy/me who wants to live his life out alone cannot, why? well because they have a phrase/wordes of wisdom if you wish: Even if One Sheep Goes missing I will leave the flock to go find him. THAT IS CLEARLY THEFT. THEFT OF ME. No i cant afford the house so am reliant on the evil b****** that write the books for our benefit and their profit. The great teachers who can only teach ASK AN ANGEL. There are no fricketing angels. I know ive experienced the lack thereof. To turn to an entity noone as ever seen is further insulting my inteligence. Perhaps santa clause will bring me a new house next year. Its a consciousness usurping tool in order to make me just like 90% of people, unconscious automatic workers. Its their answer to everything, work? Ime being hounded bu mental health people because one day i was close to tears as i was being forced to work for them. My mentalality is, as been and always will be totaly and utterly private. Im not open, i cannot open up to a world that leaves millions starving and homeless. But of course they are starving so theres always an answer to people like me. Think yourself lucky. What crap. Should i think myself lucky that i worked 35 years for nothing then some kid twins turn up with bad hair cuts and earn more than i every did in my life (JEDWOOD). Theres millions more exaples but that one is probably the most laughable.? It clearly shows that im dealing evil self servuing maggots. Yet people go along with it. everybody take a month off work, even the banks and profiteers and sort these problems instead of ptting half starved kids on tv to make us feel sorry, compassionate. They that hold all the money for their own good dont care why should i. EXACTLY, these people are melting the ice caps and selling polar bears for �2 per month in exchange for a few pictures and a letter, dont you worry theres profit in it for them. to end when moses asked egypt to let his people go he didnt, here we still are slaves. Im not looking for answers here i know there are none. Oppinions If UWILL.

I don't know if I was raped or not?

I only use to see my dad when I was little, probably until I was 6 years old- then he kinda left me and my mom, only coming around every once in a while. I haven't seen him for at least 4 years but now I'm 14 and I'm starting to have memories of him raping me.... when I was 12 I started becoming disgusted at the sight on a mans hand and I would even vomit if it became to repulsive for me to handle, that year I was diagnosed with depression and anxiety so now I'm on medication. I can only remember all the vulgar feelings and details of when and IF he did rape me.... I can see my facial expression and his through the whole memory, the only thing is I don't know if my mind is telling me the truth or if this really did happen.... And before I bring it up to my mom I want opinions ....because my mom will freak out even if I say the word rape. It's making me paranoid and depressed, I can't sleep at night, and I have night-mares about it... My memory just isn't clear enough for me to believe though, so I'm really confused. It's got me so down that I almost let myself fail the 8th grade, I started to not care and I started losing my friends until I realized that I need to figure things out and that I can't let something like this ruin my whole life and I know if I have a distorted reality and I open my mouth I can really make my dads life horrible... I can really hurt people if I say something like this and it's not even true....I really need some advice...

Depression that never seems to end.?

I don't know what to do with myself anymore. I am not exaggerating when I say that I feel sad almost every hour of everyday. I have lost all my inspiration. It makes me sad because I use to know myself so well, but now I am not even sure who I really am anymore. I feel lost, and constantly my mind is running thoughts and memories, It is like I cant control it anymore. Its overwhelming and controls my everyday life. My sleeping schedule is horrible..it changes, but not frequently. Because of my depression, I feel as if I can't sleep...I stay awake until what seriously feels as if I am passing out. It is very painful for me since my sciatic nerve is messed up, so it tends to act up more at night, as well as my restless leg syndrome and asthma. I work full time so it makes working a drag. The past 3 months/recently I believe I cry about 4 times a week waking up, at work and before bed. I thought that it might be from my ovarian cyst but I have had them for almost 6 years and have never dealt with depression as bad as this. Since I was a child, I have dealt with depression, but have never been diagnosed due to money issues. I do believe that the depression in my past had a lot to do with the environment I grew up in and the constant everyday battles I faced with dealing with my parents who where drug users, argued everyday and neglected me at least until the age of 13 when my parents made more money(my happiness was "bought") I also used to cut myself. I fought myself so many times to try and ignore the thoughts. When I tell my parents about this, they don't seem to take me seriously. My mother puts her friends before me, and my father is extremely obsessed with my mothers absences and how it effects his life, to the point to where my problems don't exist at all. I am 19 years old...I still live in this house and giving money to my parents is hard to do, especially trying to improve and take care of myself as well. Everyday I suffer because of my emotions. I feel so miserable and almost so much so to a point of insanity. I am scared because I started to notice that I talk to myself out loud and really don't notice it until I kinda catch myself I guess. Throughout the day I feel the urge to cry several times, but mostly I end up reaching a point of what feels like major anxiety. I can feel my chest tighten, and this horrible butterfly in my stomach sensation...but not the good kind. I get really dizzy and I get migraines at least a couple times a day. I am also very insecure because of all of this. When someone looks at me on the street I tend to think they are looking at me because there is something wrong about my appearance, not that they are "checking me out." And last year, two people I got very close too betrayed me and hurt me so badly that it has now caused me some serious social anxiety outside of work. I shake a lot and it almost takes anything negative to set me off emotionally... I can't let things go....when I am upset I stay that way over the issue for a very long time...to the point of constantly beating myself up mentally...of how stupid I am or pathetic. And when I cry, sometimes I cant stop... and at times causes me to have panic attacks. I cant be around people to long other wise I feel suffocated...like I need to be alone. The thoughts in my head wont shut up....and I cant handle it...I get to high levels of stress over this, to where I throw almost a child-like tantrum, but only in private. And even when I experience laughter and smile I still feel sadness within me...its like it is eating at my insides. It makes me feel sick and want to throw up. Also I do believe this is caused, not only from home life and personal, self loafing issues, but from my complicated love life. I met someone who I am now still involved with on and off romantically about 4 years ago. He lives about 8 hours from me though. He changed my life for the better at first but over time became verbally abusive. He tells me I am pathetic and stupid and a *****, etc. when he gets mad at me and tells me how everything is my fault, but then other times he is the sweetest guy in the world and very loving. I tried moving on once, went on a date with a friend...we ended up kissing once. I told him about it recently and he called me a cheater and that I should feel ashamed (even though we are not together now and weren't when I went on that date). Ever since I have felt incredibly guilty and more depressed then before. I think about ending it all sometimes. I feel worthless. And it makes me incredibly tense..I can't even clean my room...to the point of getting carpet beetles (I look like a hoarder)...I panic when people go in my room because my room is like a window to my soul, metaphorically. I don't like people seeing my pain. I have so much potential to be someone in this world...but I always feel depressed..like it will never end. Please, what should I do? Help me?

Can you correct the paragraph to make it better?

A student will experience similar consequences as mentioned above. However, students also face a significant decline in their academic performance, which makes it relatively easy to diagnose depression. The mind of a university student is volatile, impulsive and that influences the way he/she confronts various life situations. Rapid hormonal and chemical changes in the body of an adolescent are to be blamed for this psychological state. Therefore students are highly vulnerable to depression.

Having laptop issues?

I have what is called a "notepad", which is essentially a smaller version of a laptop, if you didn't know. But, when i reached over to turn off my light, my laptop fell, and ever since then it wont let me play videos on youtube. It also freezes on occasions, whereas I would have to restart my laptop. Please diagnose this issue for me.

HELPPP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!! Keyboard on my new HP entertainmnt pc wont work... makes clicky noises!!?

this is a total shot in the dark but i have had ppl come to me with this problem and sometimes it is the scroll lock key, otherwise the answer above is the best route, if you are really in love with that computer you could always have em give you a new keyboard as well

Do i have a disorder or something (Re-Post)?

no, hunny, you aren't crazy. you sound sad, Hun. your pic is gorg and i think your dad said that mean thing to you is because he is a lunitic. it must be hard for you, but Hun, just remember that god will always be with you. you are never alone Hun, god is always with you. but just try to look at yourself in the mirror. youll feel a lot more confident, because you are beautiful. god made you as amazing as you are. jelousy is the worst trait, and your dad is mad because he knows he will never be able to have you so he hates on you. i am very sorry Hun, and i will pray for you.

Why is there extreme sexism here? Fathers love child as well...?

Most questions asked are for mom only. Questions from men are readily banned. i am a proud male raising his own offspring. You bring dishonor upon your family for generations. Are you against plack persons or homosexuals too? Even a child may have two fathers! This is the truth!!

Can we be a type of divine similar as a God?

No we can't. Even if a person grows in knowledge and behaves well, we can't become any sort of Supreme Being like God is. God is perfect; He is omnipotent, omnipresent, and omniscient while we're all human that sin and make mistakes. To think that we can or are at the same level is pride. Satan thought he was so great, that he thought he was at the same level and better than God, which is why he got cast out of Heaven.

Do I have a right to be upset?

Okay so im going to try and keep this short cuz it could go on for days.I have just recently been diagnosed with Mono,a kidney infection,strep and a sinus infection.I am so sick I can barely move from my bed to the kitchen to get water with out throwing up or passing out.My whole body hurts and I basically feel like i have been hit by a train.So anyways 4 of july is coming up and I had this whole impression that we were going to go with a few friends and watch fireworks somewhere and just be laid back and have fun.Then all of a sudden knowing i cant go my bf has decided that he wants to go to another state to light of his own fireworks and get drunk with some freinds he knows out there.And he keeps asking me well why can you go?????? I guess im upset because I sorta need someone to take care of me while im in the worst stages of this and he is just leaving to go get drunk and do stupid stuff.???

Can spar urethane damage glazed porcelain floors? how to clean?

After applying spar urethane on a wooden door near porcelain tiles it seems as if the porcelain tiles appear smudged and stained no matter how much they are scrubbed, is the spar urethane wooden finish to blame? if so how can it be cleaned? thanks!!

Do you Oppose This Appointment Made by Governor Chris Christie?

On the Tenth-Year Anniversary of the murderous, Islamofascist terrorist attacks of 9/11, Governor Christie has seen fit to dishonor that day of infamy, and its still grieving nation, by continuing to actively and personally promote *his* appointment to the New Jersey Superior Court of a Passaic County Muslim attorney, who defended not only detainees of 9/11, but also the imam of a Passaic County mosque, the second largest mosque in the country, who is subject to deportation by the Department of Homeland Security due to his terrorist ties. The prior imam of that mosque was previously deported for such ties. Mr. Mohammed's curious activity in defense of those with terrorist ties in other matters is highlighted in articles below that were previously distributed across the nation in January 2011.

Help! My dog has a bad swollen eye!?

I just woke up and rolled over to a happy puppy... with one eye swollen shut!?! Its nearly shut and theres no open wounds or discharge, its red and it appears to be a bump on top of his eye. Mosquito bite? Bug bite? What do I do? Neosporin? Or would he smudge it into his eye and blind himself??

Is it normal for new tattoo ink to come off?

I got a new tattoo on my lower back last night, its al black and a pretty decent size. I tried as hard as I could to sleep on my stomach but must have turned over while I was sleeping. There is little black smudges on the sheets and when I washed it this morning a little more ink showed up on the towel. my tattoo looks okay but I REALLY dont want to have to go get it touched up so I was just wondering if this is normal...?

₪ What did I do so wrong for him to block me? I am a good person?

Move on. it doesn't sound right maybe had you not dropped him in the beginning. Sound like you were impatient with him to answer. Some people don''t write back right away no need to drop that person, maybe he got hurt when you dropped him. Anyway time to move on and unfriend for good

Is this in the bible ?

is there like a saying in the bible that says like to respect everyone or something bc i do not believe in god or the devil and i hate it how people tell me that i should it hurts and im just writing a statment about it and i just need a line from the bible to prove a point and i do not mean and dishonor or harm in this. thank you for your help

What does make an honorable/not honorable sex in a christian marriage?

I understand that all things must be done to Honor our Father but how does that translate to the especific topic of marriage? I am kind of confused with sex honor/purity within marriage. I can see how many people would reject one thing or another based on personal preferences but what (besides porn and fornication of course) would dishonor God or undefile the bed of a married couple?

What kind of Respiratory problem is this?

some random times of a day i'll feel like i can't breathe and i need to constantly yawn until i get a nice satisfiying breath..during these times it feels kind of like not enough air is going in my lungs...i was diagnosed with asthma but i really don't think that's what this is...it happen/ alot when i'm in bed and when i start to fall asleep, sometimes i jerk awake because i get scared that i'll stop breathing.

Mascara, eyeliner and concealer?

For eyeliner try MAC fluid line in black track, it has lasted me for several months and stays on for many hours and it can even last through a shower.

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

How do I know if I can be a Christian and also am I a true Christian?

I want to be a Christian and follow Jesus because I love the idea of beautifully good morals and loving God and others. Why do I still sin sometimes and feel sad and bad about it. Usually I commit sins like I argue with my parents (dishonor my mother and father) or tell fibs/lies to protect others feelings. I don't know why I argue with them and I love my parents a lot and feel bad about it. We will fight and argue but then we make up and everything's is fine for a while until it happens again. Can I still be a Christian and go to church if I am still sinning? Also if I can't stand the idea of sinning then why am I still dis-honoring my parents. I feel like I have no control at times. I love my parents deeply and will miss them and mourn extremely when they pass away. I'm so confused I just don't know what to do.

Any advice on helping a left hander?

My daughters left handed and gets frustrated when she smudges her work. I encourage her to keep trying but her hand aches and she gets upset. Are there any tips to make it easier? Thanx in advance for your help

Why Does everyone only think that Islam has crazy things in it's Book??

That is what the New Testament is for. Why didn't you show anything about the new testament except for one line from Peter? You have to read the WHOLE bible to understand its full meaning.

A Nail Polish Question -?

I Know This Might Sound Bad But If You Put The Tip Of Your Tongue On Your Nail And If It Tastes Bad Then It's Not Dry, Or You can Put Them I Water And That Dry's Them ,Or Use A Hair Dryer LoL:L It Works:)

Social work vs counseling?

I currently have been working as a Residential counselor (glorified babysitter) for the past 3 months. I have thought about moving up to be a social worker. But the issue is the obvious that the salary for a social worker isn't that high working for non-profits. And I don't feel my heart is in social work as well due to the fact I volunteered to work along side with a licensed social worker at the local VA. The only time I was remotely excited was when I could possibly diagnose what someone might have due to their behavior charts. So I like working with and counseling people, which in social work it's more paper work. Sorry for it being long but I am frustrated that the only way to really counsel people is to have an MSW which I don't think I would have enough interest to pull me through paying X amount of dollars for an increase of 10,000 a year salary. What should I do?!?!

Expectations with father? YOUR ADVICE PLEASE?

hello, my name hayashi. i am japanese student who study at american university. i been here 2 months. my father wishes me to be a doctor, however i feel that am better suited to paint. I do well in classes, but it does not please me to learn biology. How i tell father, i do not want to dishonor him but i wish to be painter. If i no be painter i don't know what to do. I am also concerned because i recently start drinking alcohol. I get in fights. How i straighten life out?

Is it fair to balme Islam or is it the violent who bring dishonour to Islam?

Even before the advent of Islam Monophysite followers of Disocorus lynched the orthodox bishop Proterius in Alexandria (455 AD). Could it be just that certain people will seek violence wheteher isman exists or nt, and they will find any religious excuse or otherwise? Forgiven mine baad the Engliish please

Father uses bible as a false weopen?

Yes I am a Christian but when ever I fight with my dad he will get angry yell and say honor your father and mother and it's a bunch of crap. He doesn't deserve my honor and I'm not even dishonoring him when he talks. He pretty much uses it as a you do everything I say cause I'm your dad and the bible says. If anything this is pushing me away from god. I don't know what to say when he says that...

What kind of eyeliner to use?

I would suggest Milani Liquif'Eye, NYC Waterproof or Rimmel Exaggerate - All have great staying power and easy application.

I have nothing to live for?

There are a zillion ways to meet people, but usually meeting the first one is hardest, since one friend will over time introduce you to others, making it easier to meet people. But consider joining a gym, getting involved in the arts, joining an environmental group, volunteering at an animal shelter, getting active in a political party, playing basketball by yourself in a busy neighborhood, joining a hiking club, joining a bike club, getting a job where people your age work, taking a college class (even if you're not going to college, you can take a class), even looking up church singles groups. For most of those things, you can easily find what's available in your areas by using Google (e.g., bike club name-of-your-town). It sounds to me like you're still very depressed at the death of your father, but the best way to honor him to make his life an inspiration not a loss. Since you were diagnosed with social phobia, you probably also know that the way to move ahead is to take very small steps one day at a time.

Will my Psychiatrist diagnose me with ADHD if I am obvious smart...?

What the...You don't have to be dumb to have ADHD. It has been suggested that I have ADD/ADHD , but I don't have the money to get tested, and it doesn't mean I'm not as smart as everyone else. Honestly. the stuff you're describing sounds a bit like OCD mixed with PTSD (possible, you weren't specific about your life)..and he's not going to just hand you pills. You have to get tested, it's not like the chicken pox, where they can take one look at you and go "Yup, he has ADHD."

Mood swings and lack of social interaction?

Hey from the title you probably already know what to excpect, i'm in my mid teens and since I could remember I've been easily hurt (emotionally) and as a result I avoid most social situations, or try to act like I'm not there when I am there, I'm scared I'll look or do stupid things as when something like that happens i think about it Alot which which ***** me up, also I suffer from mood swings, I feel like sometimes I can be totally happy and care free and sincere, And then before I know it I'm a sarcastic depressed pessimistic person, there's been mornings where I woke up and feel ok and then my thought patterns go 180 degrees, I listen to music, makes me feel good sometimes, and then in just a sad mess, sometime I lock my door and stare at the celing in mental pain, as of last Christmas I took up guitar, but recently I just feel like it's another problem, but maybe in a few hours I'll pick it up and play with happiness.... Who knows, I already know I have OCD (definietly) but I'm self diagnosed as I lack the actual confidence to face a psycologist. So people what are your thoughts feelings reccomendations etc...

What do you think about this of similarities between CM Punks WWE and ROH comments of departure?

I love it. CM Punk using his own storyline from the Summer of Punk back in 2005. It probably means that he will leave this year but at least he'll get given a good run as WWE Champion if WWE are doing their own version of RoH's Summer of Punk. Just love how WWE are doing this with RoH coming back onto TV screens in September and Punk might be there come the end of the year

Eye makeup!? HELP? I need advice on mascara and eyeliner!?

I use different brands. I use Avon for eye liners, Cover girl and Clinique for mascara, I use Lancome for the primer for my mascara which helps to make them appear more thicker and fuller. The eye loners are like 5 dollars, the Cover Girl mascara is 10 dollars I think, Clinique is 14 dollars, and the Lamcome eye lash primer was 24 dollars. Also, use a heated eye lash curler before applying the primer and mascara.

To all the self-diagnosed transgender people, do you ever wonder why you're supposed to see a gender therapist?

I'm 14 and transgender and I wanted really bad to self-medicate myself and was very close to doing so but decided against it because of the HUGE risks involved. I do know why some people decide to self-medicate on hormones; they can't talk or ask their parents to take them to a doctor so they freak out and just decide to self-medicate anyways because even if something bad did happen they wouldn't even care because they were so depressed. I know how this feels. My parents would literally probably beat me if I told them I was transgendered.

Help with crashing hard drive?

You could install Ubuntu onto a external HDD and click Properties on the internal one and I'm pretty sure it could run tests on it. My BIOS could also run tests on several components in my computer. Try searching in your BIOS (without changing any settings) and see if there's a hard drive diagnoser before resorting to Ubuntu. If it's dead, I hope your friend made recovery disks or has a recovery partition he can boot from (Should appear on boot-up screen).

Should I treat my cat for cancer, or make her comfortable till the end?

Well, it'sat no cost to you to have it done, so i would go through with it, and make her recovery go as well as you possibly can, making her feel loved and cared for. even if she dies shortly after recovery, her last days will be without pain and suffering, and she might be able to die happy with loving owners who did everything they could to help

Urban Decay 24/7 or Make Up For Ever Aqua Eyes?

I am a hardcore Urban Decay junkie, my heart says 24/7 liners, but my head says MUFE Aqua Eyes. 24/7 liners definitely smudge. They don't last on the waterline at all. If you are using it for the upper lash line, then the choice is yours, but if you want something that will last no matter where you put it, go with MUFE.

Poll: How much make up do you use?

Me: Translucent powder, usually brown or pink sometimes silver and purple eye shadow, and mascara I only really wear eyeliner during winter because I'm ALWAYS outside and it will just run but when I do I use Stila gel smudge pots and put it on very thin to emphasize my eyes and NOT on the waterline.

My dad is crazy.......HELP?

He is one of those crazy old fashioned Japanese dads and he says if I don't get good grades he's going to commit suicide because of the dishonor it will bring amongst the family blah blah blah anyway how can I deal with him for starters he always says that but just in case I've hide every pointy object in the house.... Including spoons even though they are not pointy...

Monday, July 18, 2011

I pray 5 times a day and wake up in the middle of the night to pray extra, while you pray only once a week, so?

If I was friends with someone, I would prefer that they actually communicate with me rather than just spam me with some cut and paste rubbish. Because if they did the latter, they would not be my friend for long.

Do you think i am dishonoring my mom?

I am a biracial 15 year old, my mom is white and my dad is black. I identify myself as a black girl even though some people don't realize im black. I don't have self hatred or anything but when people tell me i'm not black it hurts my feelings. i tell them im black and they ask if im sure. My friends said by identifying as a black girl i am dishonoring my mom but i am not.

₪ What did I do so wrong for him to block me? I am a good person?

Some people can be very mean. Obviously he was too harsh nd you didn't deserve that. He could hv jst ignored you without getting your hopes up. The best you can do now is forget him and what happened.

Managing anger and video games?

the same thing happens to me when i play mw 2...like a camper using the one man army perk using land mines to Surround him and uses the moniter attatchment and is a sniper with an rpg...oh that crap pisses me of!!! why play when your gonna play like a low life at least run away...ive ran around the whole map and only died 3 time with 20 + kills its not that hard you just need to gain skill...thats an honarable way to play not like being a camper...no honor in tat...quick scope kill is weird to me their honorable yet its still get me mad cuz thats an instant kill...idk playing online were gonna meet alot of people with honor and low level scum that really have no reason to play but idk i think the honor among gamers has changed due to online gaming...i remember playing nintendo and there were things we would not do cuz of respect but know that respect or honor is kinda taboo know...its sad really know we dont know who has skill and who just camps or quick scopes...(i say quick scopes because all they ever use are sniper classes and nothin more)...a great gamer is someone who can master all kinds of classes...but thats just me...=]

The best eyeliner out there?:D?

So i'm looking for an eyeliner that won't smudge, fade out through the day, or be too hard to apply. I'm going for a brown color though because i want to go natural. So, any suggestions on what type of eyeliner i should get? And one more question..which is easier to apply for you? Liquid, gel, or pencil? Thanks.

Do anti-depressents work?

I've been on 15 different anti depressants and have felt no relief with any of them after being diagnosed with clinical depression. However on all these medicines ive never been over a dose of 250 mg is this why they havent worked for me? my new pyschitrist thinks its the reason why.

How do you keep your eyeliner from smudging?

my best trick is to set it with a eyeshadow....for me it doesn't hardly smudge when i do....otherwise i would suggest trying an eyeliner sealer, some companys have those

Wazzzuuuppp?????????

ok. this might be a pretty complicated question but ill try hard to make it simple. i was diagnosed with borderline personality..a year ago.. n on vacation in florida i experienced a horrible , wicked really bad mood swing.. it was the worst ive had. ive been crying a lot lately. but those two days of vacation i was so out of it .. out of control. i hit my family in a public park.. theme park. i screaed and i swore. it was really bad. all i remember is i got in a fight with my mother. then i lost my temper and my attitude and i went from childish. it was crazy. cuz we were waiting in line for some show. and i freaked out during the fight started running for the exit.. then it just started out. like that the rest of the day i was alone. n the next day i felt horrible cuz i also threw things. ruped something. and i tried to make myself throw up. i wanted to die. but sometimes i find im bi-polar as well. help

How can i stop my make up from smudging?

i tried using gel liner(bobby brown) and for some reason it smudged? i used it for my top and waterline as well.. the waterline was horrible.. is there a way to stop it from smudging so much?

Can smudging drive away negative people?

I have a feeling this is possible has anyone had any situations where smudging actually drove away a negative person?

Which is better, Liquid or Gel Eye Liner ?

Which do you think ? I already use and can use liquid liner. So, I'm not too worried about how easy they are to apply. but, which stays longer, doesn't smudge, etc ? also which brands ? Thanks (:

Did Jesus and his apostles preach from door to door?

of course Jesus went door to door he spent his whole ministry as a missionary going to people not waiting for them to come to him or a specific building.

I was diagnosed with Mononucleosis, can I got to the beach?

i have it for already 20 days, but my tonsils are still swollen. Once the tonsil pain goes away, is it safe to go to the beach? Even just to lay in the sun?

Computer Internet Access Issues?

Do you use rogers its probably them messing up because i have been recieving those problems all day. The problem comes and go,

Are you proving yourself ready, because at an hour you do not think, the Son of man is coming?

Yes we must keep on watch,for the time is coming that this bad corrupted system of things will come to it's end,replaced by THE KINGDOM OF GOD!.(DANIEL 2V44)Yes well said above that all true servants of the ALMIGHTY GOD JEHOVAH...keep on watch for it will come as a thieve and the judgment will start from GOD's serving people,those that are proclaiming his name & his kingdom!IT IS VITAL THAT BY OUR CONDUCT AND BY OBEYING GOD'S WORD,CONT..PREACHING,WHILE SPIRITUALLY KEEPING AWAKE WAITING FOR THE TIME WHEN WE ALL BE FREE FROM THIS DYING SYSTEM AND BE FOUND WORTHY TO ENTER IN THE EVERLASTING LIFE...AGAPE.

Pregnant need help?!?

Please help! Ive found that I have Around a thirty day cycle and I had my last period May 14th 2011 and should have gotten it on or around the 11th. (23 days from the day i ended my last period.) i ovulated around the 29th of may. Ive been so tired lately, the other day i slept for 5 hours mid day. (I never take naps.) And im just not hungry at all. I have to force myself to eat. I feel sick off and on and almost threw up the morning of the 13th. Im gassy a lot more than usually and get dizzy every now and then. I just feel bad. Me and my Fiancee want a baby so bad. I took a Clear blue pregnancy test and it was negative :( im around 19 dpo (so i figure.. not sure.. i used a calculator i found online..) so I just took another test and it was still neg. :'( yesterday I noticed when I wiped I saw a pink smudge.. like a watery type blood if you will. Other than that I havnt bleed or spotted at all. every now and then ill get a little slight cramp on the left side and it will go away. im so lightheaded and worn out. Is this my month? But why am i not getting a positive on a home pregnancy test. If I am pregnant I guess I would be bout six weeks. Has anyone experienced this and been pregnant and got - on home tests? im desperate i need help!!!

I can't deal with my mom anymore?

My mom is in college right now and she is stressed out about it so she is making everyone miserable. She complains and freaks out over everything. If someone is in the bathroom when she has to go she flips out, as if we know when she has to go so we purposley go. She just complains about everything and i dont think i can deal with it much longer. I cant talk to her because she wont listen to what anyone has to say. And my brothers are both autistic so that stresses everyone. Also she has been diagnosed with bipolar disorder which she isnt on medicine for. But she is on meds for depression. Please help, im only 15 so i cant leave any time soon.

My cousin has just informed me that she's a stripper, what should I do?

If a woman is desperate enough to take off her clothes for money, so be it. There probably isn't much anyone can do, I'm sure she appreciates you trying to help and all but in all reality women like to feel independent no matter how hard that is, some people may look down on strippers. I personally don;t find it degrading whatsoever. All you can do is reassure her that she is loved and cared about, anything else is her own personal decision.

What could be wrong with my engine?

I will say, good job on the narrative and spelling, but one thing you left out...what engine. I would guess the 3.1L ? if you are loosing coolant the problems will start. The computer will set a "limp home mode" and cause all kind of issues. In a 1998 OBDII car I would start with the codes set.

What are the common signs & symptoms if someone has an ovarian cancer?can this be diagnosed even on the earlie?

what are the common signs & symptoms if someone has an ovarian cancer?can this be diagnosed even on the earlier stage?

Is it okkayyy to sleep with makeup on?

I don't think it will give you wrinkles, but it will clog your pores and it can irritate your eyes. You should definitely take off false lashes and use eye makeup remover for your mascara/eyeliner. And if you're lazy and don't want to wash your face, buy a package of unscented baby wipes and rub a wipe on your face at night instead.

Maybelline studio gel liner VS Wet N Wild Mega Eyes creme liner?

What is better? Which one lasts longer without smudging,fading, or flaking? And does either one test on animals? Thanks

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Is honoring the confederate flag similar to dishonoring the American flag like a flagburner does?

No, but you would have to learn about things like freedom and states rights to fully understand what the confederate flag means. It does not and has never stood for slavery to anybody who actually knows what they are talking about.

How can I help my ADD?

Instead of pills you could do ADD coaching/therapy, tutors, exercise, meditation, adequate diet, + taking breaks from electronics. :)

I have given a notice in writing to the person, who has dishonoured the cheque (funds in sufficient)and have a?

i have given a notice in writing to the person, who has dishonoured the cheque (funds in sufficient)and have advised him to make my payment within 15 days. If he does not make my payment, what is the next step i should take. pls advice.

Boyfriend doesnt believe in religion?

Ok so I am head over heels for my boyfriend and soon to be fiance we love each other so much. My mom loves him which is more then great because this is the only boyfriend that has ever gotten her approval . And for the first time I have someone that can connect with my brother too. He is a all around great guy.He treats me better then all of my ex's combined. I told him many times he damn near perfect but I know nobody is perfect so I knew he had a flaw but I couldn't figure out for the life of me what and now I know. He prays before every meal and sometimes i'd catch him praying just because , So I always assumed he was into God. I am a christian and that's how I was raised. I just learned that he doesn't believe in anything he don't see for his self . He doesn't call his self a atheist but he says he just dint believe in religion. I asked why does he pray he said because that's how he was raised to pray. It confused me a bit I gave him a quite lengthy speech on God and he just kept pressuring that he wont believe . I don'tt believe it would cause problems between us because he never brought it up until I asked about it. I also raised the question about our future children and how the wedding will be he doesn't mind because its not a big deal to him. He says he just living his life. But I feel like I'm dishonoring God for being with him . So leads me to the question is it okay that I'm with him or should I just not worry about it?

If a girl insists on repaying a guy for saving her life during a drowning accident...?

Is it unkind of him to turn her down, if say she tells him that in her culture a turn-down at that point would mean total disrespect or dishonor?

Would being diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder keep her from her dream career?

My cousin was recently diagnosed with bipolar disorder, she wants to be a massage therapist like me however on the applications to apply for your official license they now require you to disclose if you've ever been diagnosed with any mental disorder (they didn't used too). I wonder if she can be turned down for her license because of this, even though it's not like she chose to have it though so it's just wrong if they do turn her down. She is taking all of the proper steps to to get better and has been doing wonderfully since. Does anyone have any idea? I call the licensing board but can never get through! Thank you kindly in advance.

My cat was diagnosed with FIP, Feline Infectious Peritonitis. Dry or no water accummulation.?

He's always vomiting and suffering from diarrhea on a weekly basis alternately. He's appetite is good but got still bony and cannot regaining his normal weight after giving foods that he likes. I feel so sorry for my cat. I hate to put him to sleep but if I can keep him as long as he can, I would do it. I need a second opinion on how can I help him inspite of the known fact that no treatment or cure for this incurable disease. He's been suffering for 6 months now and he's only 16 months old. Anyone there can give some suggestions? I gave hin all my love and care. For how long do you think he will live?

Recommend a good eyeliner?

MAC eyeliner is very good & waterproof to the point when u tear nothing runs & its hard to wash off so be sure to buy makeup wipes! Oh & the price is $14

Diagnose me, please help?

Ok my main symptoms have been ive had a stomach ache for a couple of days, not too painful just unsettled. Also i feel the need to burp quite a lot and i feel sick but nothing comes up at all, but it isn't painful retching. Ive also had a mild headache. Im 17 and male btw.

How can I get my lazy irresponsible teen to come home at night?

He is 18 & works part time. He spends his money on tatoos, cigarettes, junk food, etc. He does pay for gas in his car.We gave him a good used car when he got his license & when he turned 18, due to a speeding ticket, we put him on his own insurance policy. We've been telling his he has to pay for his insurance, he has the money for it, but he can't seem to get around to paying it.This is probably because he figures we'll pay it out of necessity.Every night he goes out and says he'll be back by midnight, 2 a.m., or whatever time we agree on. Instead, the night gets later & he does not show up. We try to call & text & can almost never reach him. Some mornings he's come home around 3:30 a.m. and other times we can't reach him until noon the day after.He says he is spending the night with a friend whom I've just met (finally) and is 16, a minor, stating they play video games all night.I've begged him to have this kid overnight at our house sometime.Finally,last night he did.They said they'd be here for dinner but I didn't hear from him. Around 10 p.m. I reached him & he said he & 2 friends would be here by midnight. 1:15 a.m. they weren't here. I called him,reached him,he said he'd be here in about 15 minutes. 2:00 a.m. I called again & he said he was almost home,with the 2 friends,both minors.They came in,smelling strongly of cigarette smoke.My son is an adult by law & my husband/his father, is in law enforcement & has explained the ramifications of contributing to the delinquency of minors.Also,my husband & I are having marital problems & are trying to mend the relationship.This added stress about whether or not our son is coming home or has been involved in an accident or has gotten in trouble, etc. is adding to our stress tenfold. He's our only child & we feel it is inconsiderate of him to be unreachable most of the time & we worry about his safety.We are afraid to take his cell phone as discipline,because if he needs it for an emergency we want him to have it.He works 2 to 3 nights a week waiting tables at a nearby restaraunt. How can I get him to come home on weeknights so that my very stressed & depressed husband and I can get some relief? We're worn out everyday from waking up through the night & finding our son's bedroom empty & being unable to reach him. My husband has a heart condition & this stress is really a problem. I have been diagnosed with major depression & have been medicated for many years. Most of the time the depression is under control. We have too much going on to have these added worries. We didn't raise him to be so inconsiderate. We don't want to "put him out" because (1) he can't afford it (2)he is irresponsible (3)we don't want to sabotage his future. He graduated from high school this month & is enrolled to attend Community College in the fall. We wonder now if he'll even make an effort. If we tell him he has to help pay for it, he will just quit. He is intelligent but very lazy. His chores at home are to clean a cat box occasionally, & will only do it if nagged for days. He is supposed to keep his bathroom clean but it is so disgusting I can't go in there. His room looks like a health & fire hazard. I have taught him to do his own laundry because I got tired of the clean clothes getting spread all over the floor with the dirty clothes. He occasionally washes just what he needs for a day. He's driving us nuts. Any ideas? Thanks for any and all help :)

Are most men this disgusting?

I walked into the bathroom just now, picked up the roll of toilet paper sitting on the sink and noticed a brown smudge on the sink. I looked at the TP and see a tiny bit of feces on it. I am livid and grossed out. Hubs had just used the bathroom so I know it was him. I know accidents and mistakes happen, but this sort of thing happens with him a lot. Does it happen with most other men too? Is it just my guy? I don't want to judge him too harshly but it is disgusting!

Is it true that the more mascara you apply the more likely it will smear and smudge and flake?

Yes. Very true. You should never have to apply more than two coats. Try Urban Decay's Supercurl Mascara. It is amazing, and 2 coats gives you CRAZY lashes!

Think I was too harsh?

Nah you weren't too harsh..She seems like a ***** though, im not gonna lie. Honestly i iknow how it feels to be in love so I know how hard it would be to let go but you might just have to move on...if she doesnt notice you're better for her than he is then she's dumb..sorry man but you should find someone else.

How do you polish aluminum on big rigs?

Ok so I first started off with sanding everything down with a 400 grit sander, then I moved up to an 800 grit sander. I started my polishing with a yellow airway and brown rouge. It looks pretty good, however it's not close to being a mirror finish. I'm also getting a lot of smudging, and cant seem to get rid of it. Just for kicks, I tried the white airway buffer and the white polishing bar and it made my finish look even worse. Is the trick of the finish in the sanding? I'm also doing one of those huge grills that are put on the truck in the event a truck hits an animal. Any tips on getting to all the nooks and crannies that the buffer wheel can't get at?

Do you thinks it's wrong...........?

Depression can come naturally so you don't necessarily be diagnosed with depression. Ignore doctors because all they think of is increasing tablets the more you talk about it with them. Unhappiness can stay with you for a long time but goes away by itself. I have depression but I was never diagnosed with it. I think it's natural to feel depressed because of what somebody might have done to you to cause this and anything done to you in the past that makes you feel this way. A lack of interest and being ignored can cause depression. So it's right to say you have depression when not diagnosed with it because it's a natural feeling just like other emotions. That's like saying to express your emotions that you'd have to be diagnosed with it which is rubbish talk so whoever said this to you do not know what they are saying.

Is the Judeo Christian Jehovah Sadistic?

Aren't you glad that Jesus came to die for us! Hopefully, after Armageddon, when mankind is brought to perfection, we can worship God by living our lives the way he has intended humans to live. Namely, forever & without sin.

Which eyeliner should I go for?

I use almay liquid eyeliner and it's suppose to last 16 hours but I get smudges in the out side corner of my eye where I do the wing tip of the cats eye. I also use smashbox limitless eye pencil on my inner rims so maybe that is smudging I don't know. What I really want is a long lasting liner that I can do a nice cats eye with and I don't want to worry about it smudging during the work day. So I need long lasting. I have tried pencils and they can only cut it barely on my inner rims. Help please? Should I use liquid? Gel? Please help, be nice, and no spam. Thank you! :D

Wall smudges from moving furniture?

Hi, I have eggshell-finished, light yellow-colored painted walls in my new apartment, and while moving in, they got scuffed by furniture and dirt in several places. I tried using a wet rag and a Mr Clean magic eraser to clean them, and all while both removed the dirt/smudges, it also left a dark spot that looks like a watermark. Does anyone have suggestions as to how the walls might be cleaned? Thanks so much for your help!

Question about Makeup Brushes?

If you don't have much money don't bother going for MAC because their brushes range from 30-80 dollars each. For cleaning you should clean them after each time you use them to get rid of bacteria and nasty stuff.

What is the best waterproof liquid eyeliner?

I have oily eyes and always wear a eyelid primer but still eyeliner always tends to smudge in the corner. I want to do a nice cats eye and want to make sure what I get won't budge. I also want it to be very black. I like department store brands but am not apposed to drugstore brands if they are amazing. And I really don't want to spend over $25. Please help, be nice, and NO SPAM! Thank you much!!!! :)

Please read. about my staph infection?

monday i went to the doctor because i had a big red bump under my armpit. the doctor looked at it and diagnosed it as staph infection. he gave me bactrim and a bactrim ointment to put on it. this is my 4th day on the antibiotic and i havent seen any improvement yet....is this normal? it does not have a head and is not draining or weeping...im supposed to go out of town next friday. will it be better by then? please help!!!!

"You can't follow an illegal order"? About My Lai catastrophe?

I was watching American Experience about My Lai and one soldier who was there mentions that he takes crap because of the massacre by people saying "You can't follow and illegal order" to which he replies "Trust me. There's no such thing" - cus the military is the military. Is this true in all circumstance and considering what occurred did Calley and Medina deserve dishonor since they were told the village was nothing but VC and to raze it? If they or any soldier could have refused, how would it go down?

My friend hates me because I didn't turn out to be how she expected?

I was always quiet, but had the feeling that it was serving a noble purpose. Today, I let it out and I now know that I was repressing it. It was my dark side. I tried to be positive and everyone's little good boy, but I have no respect for anyone. I now have dishonored everyone's morals, though it was heading that way with them anyway. They were talking about if you sleep with someone before marriage, then you have no respect for yourself. Oh yeah, I had to. I pulled out the most obvious card, rape. Then my best friend came up to me and started telling me she hates me, because I was captain obvious. Then she said to go talk to a rapist, that offended me, because the guy she was talking about was not a rapist. She said she didn't care to actually listen to the story. I asked why she didn't tell me to stop. She gave me that she was going to say she was lost, but when I explain things, I am more confusing! She said that I was a know-it-all, but I disagreed and had her see my way. She called me cruel, dark, evil, immoral and so much worse. I told her that I once said that I wasn't, but she thought I exaggerated! I never lie to her or anything, yet she thought THAT. HER best friend is HORRIBLE, someone that hates me and I hate back. She is a thief, but I never gave a crap about the small things she took from me. She is the one that opened the virgin discussion, and the one that told my best friend about my rape comment. She turned her against me! She was a bigger crook than I first thought, she took my friend when she ALREADY had her!!! I told my friend that I knew that she would have eventually torn apart from me. It always happens, in various ways, but its basically all the same. So I thanked the one that hates me for being apart of fate. She didn't understand, but I told her that she wouldn't be able to see it the way I did. She took off with my friend after that.

What foods are high in protein?

I have a 9 year old cousin who has been diagnosed with diabetes (unfortunately I don't have all the details) but they trying to hold off the medication and saying must eat high protein foods! The problem is she hates dairy!anny suggestions

Saturday, July 16, 2011

How do I get rid of big smudges on my contacts?

I get new contacts and a few days later big smudges appear and they don't come off. I put them in solution for awhile and try to rub it off. I think maybe it's from mascara that might sit on it when I take them out at night? Please help because I'm going through a lot of contacts ):

Why did Jesus show no respect to his mother? He called her Woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1?

In that culture for a female to be called Woman was a form of high praise. When you interpret the Bible one of the CONTEXTS to look at is the CULTURAL CONTEXT!

I rewrote the ten commandments, do you think these are easier to live by?

Well, frankly, they are infinitely (well not infinitely; that's almost impossible) more generalized, and therefore just as detached from the original. I'd say no, no they are not easier to live by.

Is there ANY hope of FULLY recovering from Carpal Tunnel syndrome?

Awww...so sorry to hear your story :( I haven't had it, but my job puts me at high risk, so I've looked into it. Look it up! I was under the impression that the surgery almost always works...??? He'd never be able to be a chronic video game player again, but he should be able to resume somewhat normal use of his hands...I would at least get a second opinion. Have you just kept going back to the same doctor or have you asked many? Have you specifically asked what the benefits of surgery may be? I also read that wearing wrist supports (that keep your hands strait) while you sleep will help alleviate much of the discomfort. Good luck!!!

Uk passport renewal countersignatory Q?

hey im renewing my passport and i got a family friend who is a manager to countersign it for me but the ballpoint pen he used has smudged on the back of my passport photo, although it is still readable, will it be accepted? also, his signature has touched but not gone beyond the border on the signature box, will that be ok? i am using the post office check and send but i need to be sure because im flying on the 5th of july!

Sophomore in HS and still haven't had a BF? Pics included...?

Wow your gorgeous! Don't worry I'm the same age and I haven't had a boyfriend yet either. Theres personally no good guys in my school haha! You'll find the right guy at some point, don't worry!

Do Christians think that black people are the cursed offspring of Ham?

When Ham dishonors his father, Noah pronounces a curse on him, stating that the descendents of his son Canaan will be "servants of servants". Of Ham's four sons, Canaan fathered the Canaanites, while Mizraim fathered the Egyptians, Cush the Cushites, and Phut the Libyans.

For us who care about the Catholic faith?

Stop having sex with your boyfriend. Stop doing whatever it is that you are doing that causes you to need to lie to your parents. And go and talk to your priest, or at least go to confession before next Sunday. It is Lent. You know what you need to do, do it. God will forgive you. You also must have respect for yourself, and sex outside of marriage and dishonoring your parents are in addition to everything else, not respecting yourself. Talk to both your therapist, if you have one, or at least to your priest. And as Jesus would say, go and sin no more. Peace.

Hi i had tonsilitus is it still contagious? Details below?

I was diagnosed with it on Monday night, i have been taking penicillin ever since. Its pretty much all clear now, but is it still contagious?

Is HLH deadly for children?

My friend Rocco was recently diagnosed with HLH, a rare blood disease. I heard he was flown out to Chicago for MAJOR medical help. Im kinda worried for him. Will he die?

Is being a corrupt psychiatrist(1s dat r not their 2 help their patients but hav secret bad motives 4 dem)?

(question continued...) dishonor the whole meaning of being a Psychiatrist in da 1st place.....now please do not explain what those types of people do or describe anything about......I just know that there are those scum bag fake professional counselors secretly interrogating their patients when they interview them. and yes i do know there are those who are dedicated to make better lives for thie patients. I just want to know are corrupt psychiatrists (not in a legal sense) true psychiatrists?

Am I on the right track to Princeton? Chance me!?

Everyone applying to Harvard has the highest grades in the hardest classes and very high test scores, and they took fewer than 5% of applicants this year. You need all that, and you need a lot more to have a decent chance. Weighted GPAs don't matter; every high school has their own weighting system. Colleges ask for unweighted. Right now, you're an average applicant at best. You need to find a way to get involved with your future major now if you want to have a shot at a great school. You also need to convince them that they're the best place for you, and that's not obvious from this. What can Harvard get you that no one else can, beside the name?

Is it true past cancer patients have a history of having later GI problems later in life?

i was diagnosed with cancer in summer 2010. a month before my 15th birthday.. i had an emergency surgery to see what was going on. they found 2 massive tumors . one about 8 cm and the other was 10 cm. i was diagnosed with stage 3 non hodgkins lymphoma. i started aggressive chemotherapy after the surgery. according to something i looked up, people who have recieved chemo/radiation have bad GI problems later in life? have a lot of intestinal issues? just wondering if i heard was true, i know you can't believe everything on the internet ....

Can anyone diagnose my computer?

I am not good at computer so sorry that I cannot do any help. Hope some guys will come here and offer you a suitable answer. By the way, help me to have a hit on guccivips.com. cheap gucci items can be available there. I thought some of them are copies, but that don't mind me to own a sunglasses since it is so cheap to let me have a chance to show myself with Gucci sunglasses. lol.

Does UD All Nighter Spray help eye makeup from smudging?

I know that it helps set your face makeup but I don't really use face makeup but I almost always do my eyes. Does it help eyeliner from smearing? I already use UDPP and set it with an eyeshadow but it still smudges. Help?

Why did the U.S. military bury Bin Laden at sea?

I heard of Fox that they did it because they were worried that his gravesite would become a holy shrine for the fruitcake terrorists, but isn't throwing someone's body in the ocean a tad bit disrespectful? Also, won't his radical friends view that as a sign of dishonor to him? After all, he is now shark meat.

I have been suffering with pain in my spleen for 3 months i have had tests scans and endoscopy .h pylori posit?

i have been diagnosed with h pylori, and im on a triple course of medication. but for 3 months now i suffer with pain in my spleen, when i eat the pain gets worse and keeps me waking at night. all my tests show nothing but im still suffering and feeling unwell. i dont know what going on and feel ive had enough

How long before it is safe for my child to be around someone who has pinworms?

My friends child was diagnosed and treated for pinworms. How long before it is safe for me to have them over to my house and be around my child?

Sophomore in HS and still haven't had a BF? Pics included...?

I know what you mean. I used to never have a boyfriend, never kissed a guy or even held their hand until I met my First boyfriend(and still with him) freshman year of high school. Now Im in college and still with My first boyfriend and I love him to death, he is my best friend. My point is, when you go and TRY to FIND a relationship/Hook-up, you are not going to get one =/ However when you STOP looking and STOP worrying about your friends love life's and focus on yourself, Mr.Right will soon be right at your door. You just have to not worry about it. And be patient because that's when its worth while. I believe you will have the best man for you when you wait. So don't think about it too much =) Ok?

Getting correct medication frustration?

I was diagnosed with Bi-polar disorder and depression in 2007 when I was 19 years old. I'm not sure if I gradually starting exhibiting symptoms my last year of college since it was the earliest I can remember having symptoms. I never had behavioral problems until I was 19 either. I straighten out after a year and half and decided to go to college. In the town that I go to school in, in the midwest there's really good resources for people with mental health illnesses and concerns. When I first got here I thought that I could handle myself without any medication but after a year and a half I hit rock bottom and after 2 hospitalizations I was referred to the mental health center in town where I began seeing a therapist and psychiatrist. I really liked my therapist but my psychiatrist really frustrated me because she never listened to my symptoms and side effects and from one day to another she would take prescriptions away. It got the point that I broke down and had to be hospitalized for a week because I went 2 weeks without sleeping. I gave up going back to there and started smoking marijuana on a daily basis to self medicate. A year and some months later I really feel like I need to be medicated before my symptoms get worse. On top of everything I've explained to her in the past that I really could not concentrate in class and she said it was my bipolar disorder affecting my concentration but no matter how much dosage of mood stabilizers or antidepressants she gave me, I still wasn't really suffering in class. I just want a low mood stabilizer to balance out my moods a little. I've gotten adderrall from a friend in the past and I was actually able to concentrate in class and get so much homework done and remember what I studied and read but I don't want to use it under does conditions. I'm going to call tomorrow to set up an appointment but Im afraid I might end up with the same doctor who will not no concern about what I'm feeling or experiencing. I've taken a ADD assessment that overwhelming showed that I had ADD and I've seen multiple doctors that have diagnosed me with the depression and bi-polar...is there anything I can do to make them actually listen to me? I just want to live a normal life despite my mental illness.

Why will OBL death photos be NEVER shown if he really died?

Obama's got a really smart strategy here. He knows that no matter what, the kooks will come out and say that he's not really dead. So he'll deny, deny, deny - for a couple of years... then say "FINE - here are the pictures of him dead." Thus ending any controversy.

Is it legal under Sharia Law to kill your wife if she is dishonors you?

On the front cover of TIME a little less than a year ago a young girl from Afghanistan had her nose and ears cut off for running away from her abusive husband and in-laws. Was this legal under Sharia Law?

What do you think of this Biblical quote?

Jesus wasn't a Nazirite, he was a normal guy from Nazareth, with a normal beard, and normal relatively short hair, for sure not blonde.

Does tea tree oil smudge fake tan?

As long as you dont apply it the right before you go tanning! You should be fine!! Id take a shower before you went tanning or something, to make sure!

Im scared for the days my dogs pass away.?

It sounds silly, i know. But i love them to death... theyre family. Ive had them both since i was little. Im 15 now and one dog is 8 , the other is 7. I recently found out that one has a brain tumor, and days after i found this out my other dog was diagnosed with diabetes. Both of them have terrible issues all at the same time and im scared im going to lose them sooner than i expected. Im so scared and i dont know how to handle losing a pet. Only pet ive lost was a gerbil but thats obviously not near having a dog pass away. Theyre my family! They arent dying right now but im scared for when the time comes.

Can any one tell me about hsp please?

my dad has been diagnosed with an advanced case of hsp it took over a year two diagnose him because he had two have that many tests no 1 else in the family has it could any one tell me about it i was going 2 google it but think i always makes it sound worse than what it if u look up ilnesses thanks

How come all the asians in my city act soooo "black"?

a lot of times they overly act "black" and of course there are normal asians too...but geeze. This asian girl got really mad at me earlier because I ACCIDENTALLY stepped on her shoe and made a little smudge and I repeatedly said sorry...in a very sorry way...come on

Friday, July 15, 2011

Eyeliner from Sephora?

I need new eyeliner and I was going to go to Sephora but I don't know what to get there's so many choices. I want an eyeliner that LASTS ALL DAY and doesn't smudge or come off. I also want it to look natural, I don't like when you can see a harsh line of eyeliner on the top lid. Maybe I should get eyeliner that is like a brush and packed eyeshadow? I want it to look more natural and stay on all day while still making my eyes pop!

What do docs in uk prescribe first clomid or metformin? ?

I have just been diagnosed with pcos and have been trying to conceive for a year can anyone tell me what the doctor will do next for me? If living in the uk.... What did your doctor do for you? Thanks x

Help with mascara..? Please (:?

Hi, my lashes are naturally really long.. but Ive always wanted to add a bit of mascara do make them appear darker.. but the thing is that ive tried almost every brand of mascara but they all smudge my lashes or make them look fake and I hate it.. does anyone know a good brand that will do teh job without making them look totally fake and smudges together ?

Why am i so Unhappy in my life? Please Help?

I'm always feeling down and have negative energy around me. I'm 17 years old and I've been failing in school and thinking about dropping out, which i won't. I am a very sensitive person, and I've been diagnosed with depression. I've been to therapy, and she didn't help me with anything but giving me attitude. It's stupid, i hate it, and i'm never going back there again. The reason I've been feeling down lately is because i'm very worried about my future, and it's making me not wanna do anything anymore but concentrate on that. I have my life planned out ahead of me apparently, but i'm not really sure it will turn out the way i want it to. I wanna become an actor when i grow up because that's the only thing that makes me happy, but i can't afford the acting classes. I remember when i was really happy last year, because i hadn't had a care in the world but just be happy and have fun. 4 months ago i wanted to kill myself, because of how depressed i was and my teacher knew about it and told my counselor, and i ended up being in group therapy, which it was a waste of time. I still don't know why i exist in this world, i am always insecure, have low self esteem, and not much of confidence left in me. I feel like i'm worthless. I just don't know what to do anymore... i literally feel like crying every night, i feel like i wanna give up on everything. I hate this life.

Current event: is this another case of?

it's sad an arranged marriage of sorts can cause a person to lose the plot, he's killed his wife and is mentally ill, would he of done this if he could of married a girl of his choice, no i don't think he would. the family have pushed him into this marriage and looked what happened. a young woman dead and man who might as well be.

Does he like me? Do i like him?

My best guy friend use to never care about me my feelings or opinions... but right now he is kinda getting all... boyfriendy... like when we are watching a scary movie. He would sit right next to me, like our sides are smudged... He yelled at a random guy on FB (idk who he is) that randomly asked me out. He hugs me really tight at random times... And he will rub my hand or my shoulder at school, in front of EVERYONE! He even grabbed my hand... and pulled me across the court yard during lunch... he didn't care that everyone was looking at us.... even his ex! And he will just... care... like ask me what wrong and talk about my problems... Its weird O.o So, now i think i like him... but i don't want to... but when i see him i have to smile...

Question about movie rental?

I rented a movie from a store and it keeps freezing up when I try to watch it and it has a smudge on the back of the disk and I don't want the people at the store to think I damaged it because it already had it when I got it...what should I do

Help With History Question Pleasee ASAP :( .?

I personally would go with the louisiana purchase because it doubled our size and increased our resources, marked the end of european colonialism in our part of the world, and it established more power for the president.

Parents - What do you think about this After School detention I had on friday night?

if i had a son or daughter which i don't i wouldn't punish them again because 2hours is enough when i used to go school we only got 1 hour detention but thankfully i was good in school. It was fair on you to have to sit and write lines and write an essay for 2hours. if you don't want to get ink on you then ask if you can use a pencil. next time think about what you did to get in detention before you make the same mistake again...

How can I treat my PTSD?

My counselor diagnosed me with PTSD. I was sexually assaulted as a child (raped) and I finally came out about it about 3-4 months ago. I'm 17 now and going to see a counselor. What are some treatment options for PTSD? I've heard they can put you on Anti-Depressants but what else? thankyou very much

How would the media and IiberaIs react if this was Sarah Palin?

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What makes a flag an "all weather flag"?

An organization I am with is creating a display of American flags to honor Veterans for Memorial Day. We plan to have over 2000 4"x6" stick flags out from sunrise to sunset. However, we are increasingly worried about the chance of rain. The US Flag Code says that flags may not be flown in inclement weather, "except when an all weather flag is displayed" [ 4 USC Sec. 6(c) ]. But what makes a flag an "all weather flag"? Would the stick flags count as this? We really would like to be able to set up the display, but do not want to dishonor the national colors in doing so. Any suggestions?

Autism Games/Activities that are good for a eight year old autistic boy.?

I'm currently working with an eight year old boy who was diagnosed with autism two years ago. Although I love working with him I'm constantly trying to come up with new activities, whether its reading neat books together, artwork, lego or cool games that are more activity orientated ones. So my question what activities or resources could i be pointed towards to further our interactions together and make them more fun:) Thank you:)

Bible: is the bible for real? How come many typos? How come so many false stories/fantasy/smudges in the bible?

You have it all wrong. The bible is NOT the problem; it is the churches and their follows interpretation of it where the problem lies (but don't listen to them, go and see/read for your self. Don't judge according what other people say; go see for your self).

BEST EYELINER FOR SPORTS?

I LOVE Avon Glimmersticks Waterproof Eye Liner Pencil eyeliner! I have tried many different kinds, and nothing quite compares to this one! It stays on much longer compared to others, and goes on very easily. I will definitely keep coming back for more!

Is he cheating on me?

I've been with the same guy since the beginning of January of this year (a little over 7 months). I started to get this wretched gut feeling about a month or two into our relationship. I've never been cheated on before but these are obvious signs to me. I was checking his Facebook account (he never gives me the password for it and all ways changes his e-mails password so I can't read them!) and I was asking a few girls how they knew them, One of them answered that they've been seeing eachother for a while. All though this girl is a lot younger than me (17yrs old) I don't know wether to believe her or not because of he immaturity and want to cause drama, I confronted him about it but he said that she is full of herself and just wants the drama, Don't you think that's a little strange? The other day he was sitting out in my car and I came back in from the store to get in to my car and there were make up smudges that I know for a fact were'nt mine... I have confronted him about this too and still he denies it to his very dying day, I don't know what to do anymore. I don't think he's ever going to tell me the truth?

L'Oreal Voluminous vs. Maybelline Collosal vs. Covergirl Lashblast Orange?

Im having a VERY hard time choosing between these three! Which one is the best for volume? Lasts longer, doesn't smudge or flake? Thanks soo much! (:

10 month old was just diagnosed with JRA, how will she learn to walk?

my 10 month old was just diagnosed with JRA around her ankle joint. Before this happened, she was already walking and cruising around furniture, she hasnt beared any weight on her foot in almost a month...how will she ever ;earn to walk?

How to forgive myself for doing this?

I feel very angry at myself for looking at porn. I read somewhere that porn dishonors and misuses women. I believe women are human beings equal to men. Now I feel angry to the point of violence for buying into that. It would be nice to forgive myself without buying into the whole "God shall forgive you" bullshit. I been thinking about talking a doctor but if anyone has can give some advice, I would be very thankful.

I just came out to my family please help!!?

You're not screwed, sweety. Omg, I hate it when people go around saying you're bad for being yourself. If you are gay, then that's just who you are! You should try to contact a gay hotline that will talk to you about your worries and your concerns. The kinds of hotline I'm talking about are not the ones where you talk to other gay guys and talk dirty! no... I'm talking about hotlines that help you discuss your sexuality freely and openly. Search for some then call them so you can express your feelings to them. They'll probably make you feel less "like a freak" because truly you're not and this is coming from a straight girl!

My cats son keeps trying to mate with her?

My cat had kittens but we kept 2 and it's brother is staying over for a while an they kept bitting his mothers kneck and trying to mate and it's mum smudge was doing some sort of stepping dance with her back feet and so we new they were in heat buts so disgusting smudge know that's her sons so we keep them in separate rooms and 1 of her sons called sprint always meow in a funny way now no stop and yesterday they acidently got in the same room and we heard a pound moanings sound like almonds getting hurt it almost sounded like a person out side was shouting and when we looked sprint was on top of her but she wanted to get away and wen he went out side he keeps trying to getting like I put at the front and he goes to the back over again and his eyes were wide like he had done something i.e. Rape and I was really upset coz thief like familie and family shouldn't be mating with each other and were not sure if she's pregnant or putting on some wait because she is very skinny when we got her and she's had 4 litters 2 with us but when we got her she was already pregnant but we didn't know. Oh we haven't got them done because it expensive and but will it stop

Poll: How much make up do you use?

Me: Translucent powder, usually brown or pink sometimes silver and purple eye shadow, and mascara I only really wear eyeliner during winter because I'm ALWAYS outside and it will just run but when I do I use Stila gel smudge pots and put it on very thin to emphasize my eyes and NOT on the waterline.

Shortish poem in need of a quick review?

normaly i wouldnt sit there and read a poem because i hate it so much,, but this peom is actually really good i couldnt stop reading it when i started! well done!! :)

My lover was taken from me and imprisoned. i miss him terribly...how do i deal with the pain?

i cant eat i cant sleep i cant find motivation....everytime i hear his name....i want to physically crush that individual. IF its a ex or someone who has been with him....i want to rip them to shreds just for dishonoring him. i need help .. where do i go ...how do i make life happen ? how do i stay focused on US without the pain of his absence?

I was recently diagnosed with diabetes and I have some questions for other diabetics?

I haven't yet had an appointment to talk to my doctor about it, so I'm not sure what action will be taken as far as insulin and stuff goes (for those wondering I have cystic fibrosis related diabetes, so it isn't really type 1 or type 2) but I was wondering if some people who are diabetic (whether it be type 1 or 2 ) could tell me their diets and type/amount of insulin they take?

Theists: Should the child pay for the sins of their parents?

when a nation was destroyed it was always for great wickedness. but God demonstrated his love for these nations as well when you consider Jonah was sent to Nineveh and God relented of the judgment because they repented. In these instances where the death of the whole was ordered it is like a guy breaking into your house and you kill him so he does not kill you. These nations that did not get wiped out did repopulate and come against Israel in the future. The kids who had not attained an age of accountability might well be received in heaven. The sins that required death by stoning were rarely carried out and the acceptance of the forbidden behavior ended up being the result of not purging the evil. Look back at the USA form say the 20's through early 50"s and you can see where a moral line is crossed and that moral line is in constant retreat from that point on. A Christian is not under the law so the example of Jesus when they brought up a woman caught in adultery and he said he who is without sin may cast the first stone..that rules me out..then he said I do not condemn you but go and sin no more. God is here to save that which is lost; the unjust are already under condemnation. When Israel committed the same acts that God condemned the other nations for He rightly judged them by the same standard yet in His mercy always left a remnant to grow and inherit the promise.

Thursday, July 14, 2011

What is a good concealer to use?

I like to use concealer, but the kind I use always looks patchy, and there are smudges. What is a concealer I should use?

My father wants to be honored...? Which sounds better?

You should use the name you are happy with using. If you use something just to satisfy someone, you will be thinking, as the child grows, 'why didn't we just use the name we wanted to use.' If you want to use Elliot Heath then by all means, use it. The men ( Father and FIL) should be mature enough to be happy with whatever name you choose. After all, he's their grandson and even if his name was Scooby-Doo, they should love him for him, not the fact that he has their name.

Very scared dog! How can we help her?

Me and my partner have been looking for a dog for a while and we found Susie last night.We went to see her and brought her home with us.She is a jack russell ***** 8 months old.She is Very timid and scared.We got her off a woman who was diagnosed with MS and her son decided to go at susie with a drill while the woman was out.He thought it was funny but susie was terrified! The woman said if she could shut the door on her son and never see him she would but has grandchild to think about so she advertised her.When we went the woman told us she rescued susie from a breeder.The breeder had her in a cage locked up and let slip that she wanted to "bucket" Susie as her legs were too long for breeding!! The womanrehomed her and has had her for just under a month before her son did that to her in which she hated him and he did her! When we got there she was very shy and timid although i took my time and let her come to me.The woman was happy with us rehoming her as i should have been honoured as she let me stroke her..When we got her home she was pacing from looking out the window to the back door outside.She slep on the bed with us and as soon as she was awake she was crying and pacing again.My partner has just gone to work and she has started crying worse.I have just given her a pigs ear which she is chewing and running around with.Susie is a pup which doesn't know how to play, is scared of toys and hasn't been socialized much with other dogs.What can we do to help her and build her trust.? Sorry its been soo much. Just to let you know she is eating and doing her business fine.

Whats wrong with me? (girls only please)?

You could try seeing a different gyno...sometimes you have to see many different doctors before you find the answer. Also, don't do it if it hurts! :)

Can anyone tell me what these lines mean from the book, "Much Ado About Nothing" mean?

"Didn't he prove beyond all doubt that he's a scumbag who has slandered, scorned and dishonored my female relative? If only I were a man!"

What do you think about long haired-men in Christian church? (This question is for Christians only).?

Well, that puts a kilter on all the pictures of Jesus with long hair. Interesting rooting around there. Nice.

I want to join the usmc but parents dont ?

I want to join the marines when I graduate but my parents don't think I should and I don't want to dishonor them but I loveeeeeeee the marines and my country and want to serve in the worst way!!!!what should I do!!!!!??????

Can I use an inhaler for getting choked on smoke and when I have a shortness of breath caused not by asthma?

my fiance pops my zits and I get weak and out of breath. I was given an inhaler but I do not know when its best to correctly use one when I was not diagnosed for asthma or other respiratory systems. Got this inhaler from my fiance's mother whom does have asthma. I have small lungs smaller than normal. I get choked and can't breath in any kind of smoke whether it be from a cigerates or fire when camping. I just need to know when its best to use it because I don't have asthma and only get shortness of breath due to extreme pains.

I am 21 and have severe anxiety and depression issues, should i be worried about schitzophrenia?

I read that schizophrenia typically is diagnosed to people in between the ages of 20 and 25, who have previously had an onset of other mental health issues such as anxiety and depression. I have both of these to a large degree sometimes and I do tend to withdraw from society which is apparently another connection to schizophrenia. I am a little worried about my vulnerability for schizophrenia. Should I be?

What are some good female rat names?

I always liked names with "Rat" in them. Examples: Rattina (Rat + Tina), Rattella, Rattressa, Rattette, etc.

I was just recently diagnosed with anxiety,depression,ocd, and borderline personality disorder.?

i'm having a hard time accepting my diagnosis and feel sortof alone in this whole struggle.part of me feels like im "crazy" now coming to realizations that the way I thought and felt isn't normal. I was so used to my thought patterns and superstitions as I felt like they helped me to "predict" the future to feel more secure but now I realize how irrational i've been and that it just causes more anxiety for me.I feel this huge weight of guilt and shame over this and continue to beat myself up over nothing literally except my irrational thoughts and failing to be perfect. I feel awful but I know there's a light at the end of the tunnel somewhere in the sea i'm currently lost in and just need some guidance from someone with experience. Ty so much <3

Will A Dog Die If He Eats Butter?

No he will not die, don't worry. Your Dad probably said that, just to make sure that you keep a good eye on him.

I don't know if I was raped or not?

I only use to see my dad when I was little, probably until I was 6 years old- then he kinda left me and my mom, only coming around every once in a while. I haven't seen him for at least 4 years but now I'm 14 and I'm starting to have memories of him raping me.... when I was 12 I started becoming disgusted at the sight on a mans hand and I would even vomit if it became to repulsive for me to handle, that year I was diagnosed with depression and anxiety so now I'm on medication. I can only remember all the vulgar feelings and details of when and IF he did rape me.... I can see my facial expression and his through the whole memory, the only thing is I don't know if my mind is telling me the truth or if this really did happen.... And before I bring it up to my mom I want opinions ....because my mom will freak out even if I say the word rape. It's making me paranoid and depressed, I can't sleep at night, and I have night-mares about it... My memory just isn't clear enough for me to believe though, so I'm really confused. It's got me so down that I almost let myself fail the 8th grade, I started to not care and I started losing my friends until I realized that I need to figure things out and that I can't let something like this ruin my whole life and I know if I have a distorted reality and I open my mouth I can really make my dads life horrible... I can really hurt people if I say something like this and it's not even true....I really need some advice...

I am military and have been dealing with pain from two bulging discs in my lower back since Easter.?

First it started with a numb leg with sharp shooting pains and tingling and pain, then my foot started hurting when input pressure on it, the military sent me to a neurologist that said I have meragia prosthetica which is associated with obesity (I'm 110 lbs) pregnancy and diabetes which I don't have and sent mr for an MRI. MRI showed slight bulge in l4 l5 and l5 s1 which wasn't significant enough to do anything about. Since then it's gotten so much worse my back is killing me feels like a truck has ran over me. They next sent me to pain mngmnt which said he couldn't diagnose me and that I needed a full neurological work up so I went back to base and they out in a referral to a teaching hospital which needed two weeks to decide I'f they would even take me so then I went back to dr on base and found out they denied me, so now my dr on base says he don't know what to do that I need to find a neurologist and he'd out the federal in for me. I'm at my wits end and in extreme amount of pain they won't give me any meds since I had disc fusion in dec and have been on lortab since which don't work at all and I feel like the military isn't helping me. I can barely walk can't work lost my job over this can hardly make my bills and don't know what to do! Please help! What can I do next, I'm a military dependent and I don't know where else to go went to er twice and they won't do anything either just sent me away. I just need out of pain. I can't sleep I'm starting to get ( sorry graphic) constipated now and I'm totally lost I think it's gotten worse but they won't do another MRI. Please any advise would help thanks

What to do? I hate to see this happen?

I have a friend who is actually my ex which i dated just short of 4 years. we started dating young which i know to expect change in a person and was more than flexible to accommodate that change. 2 months ago she broke up with me to figure out what to do for school and about her disease (she was diagnosed with Crohns disease). during those 2 months i kept trying to win her back to date me again, which she seemed like she wanted. a little over 2 weeks ago she told me she loved me and wanted me to buy her stuff. then on the 19th she told me she didnt love me anymore, left me with a broken heart and a lot of debt, and then on the 25th she said she was dating someone else and loved him and she had already slept with him. Over the last 2 months she started smoking and drinking (she just turned 18), which for a long time she had a problem with me drinking and i had just turned 21. Up until then she wouldve never drank or smoked. She only hangs out with her friends from work and people she knows from around work now. She has abandoned her best friends of 14 years, barely talks to them now. She tells me she wants to be friends with me then constantly talks about how she loves him more than anyone ever before, and how she is so happy and how much better he is than me and if i try to talk to her without her starting the convo i am bothering her. I am trying to be the bigger man because despite her being my ex i still love her and she is still my best friend. She and her parents dont have a great relationship, her mother is very controlling, and her dad is there but he usually doesnt do much of anything but i treated her like gold, let her do whatever she wanted (not illegal of course) and the only thing i liked to know is where she was going so that i didnt bother her and if something went wrong i could get her. She has already slept with the guy, which shes only know 2 weeks. she sleeps at his house like twice a week, her mom hates it but she wont listen to her mom. He has a kid, was a former drug addict, has his own apartment, and has a criminal record, but ive met him and he seems like a genuinely nice guy. It is like shes trying to burn down her old life, friends and all for people she barely knows. shes pretty much given up on college too. Is there anyway i can help her see that shes hurting the wrong people and only going to end up working fast food all her life or pregnant or worse if she keeps up this path. I know the person in her that i fell in love with and made good decisions is still in her because just a month ago she was telling me she loves me, and talking about having kids together someday in the future.

What is a good bedtime routine for someone who has asperger?

About a week ago i was diagnosed with asperger. And am in need of advice on bedtime routines. My mom and I can't seem to figure one out.

So Christians what's your favorite phrase of the Bible?

Philippians 1:6 Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform [it] until the day of Jesus Christ: This tells me that The Lord has not nor will give up on me until the person i need to be is there. Thanks for the question find out more free bible lessons www.vop.com on line bible www.bibleuniverse.com

What will my doctor do now? ?

I have just been diagnosed with pcos and have been trying to conceive for a year can anyone tell me what the doctor will do next for me? If living in the uk.... What did your doctor do for you? Thanks x

My grandma has alzheimers....im sobbing...help!?

My grandma was diagnosed with alzheimers one year ago. She still remembers me, but she doesn't remember all the times that I would come over to her house to sleep over and we would go shopping together. She would cometo my piano recitals and my birthdays. We wouldd always play the board game Trouble. I am crying right now, and mad that my mom (her daughter in law) keeps bringing her up. And my dad doesn't seem sad about his own mother. My mom arranged for me and grandma and her to go out shopping and do "girl stuff". I haven't done that with my grandma in a long time My mom just suddenly brought it up and said that Grandma was "so excited" and that just set me off crying. I feel like I have neglected her. I am scared and sad and I hate that she one day won't remember me! I cry every time I see her. Please help me! :( I am 14 years old

Anyone know a waterproof eyeliner and a long lasting eyeliner for holiday? Thanks?

Firstly I wondered if anyone knows a waterproof eyeliner that won't come off too quick in the pool and that won't smudge in pool easy. I also need a long lasting gel like eyeliner can anyone suggest?? Thanks

When Jesus said, "This Good News of God's Kingdom has to be preached"?

The clergymen of today, can't perform all the miracles that Jesus, his disciples and the apostles did when they went all over the place to preach the message of the gospel. Instead, they will have to lie and say, that those things don't happen anymore and yet, Jesus said, heal the sick and feed the poor. Christianity is a load of rubbish and full of liars who change the word of God to suit themselves.

I am gonna throw a pool party for my friends but my cousins are gonna ruin it!!1 help me find a way please!!!?

i am gonna throw a pool party for me and like me and 8 friends. and my pool can hold up to like 8 people. and like all my friends that are gonna come are like 13-14. well so here is the problem, i have 3 cousins that my dad is forcing me to invite and they are 16 14 and 18. and my cousins are like SO annoying and they won't have any friends and my friends that are coming to my party don't really like them because they try to act all cool when they are really not.and i don't even like them ether and they always ruin everything so if they come to my party they will ruin it and then my guests wont have fun! ad my dad is saying they have to come! what can i do t fix this please!!! what do i do about them?!if i do invite them they will ruin my party and if i don't invite them my aunt will hit me and so will my dad and i would dishonor my family!! ugh what should i do?!!!!

My cat has severe kidney failure?

Oh, I am so sorry, how heart breaking. Your kitty could of had a bacterial infection stemming from some sort of infection such as a bladder infection or dental infection. I hope the 2 websites below will give you more information. Bless her little heart.

Long story, but its goood lol, My mom wont let me see a therapist?

1-800-448-3000 call this therapy hotline. They can help you! Good luck, and its going to be okay! Don't give up.

What do you think? :):)?

Amazing, you will defiantly get it published if you try! Your English is perfect and you explain things well, and I would think you're in between 15-20. Pictures would be nice so the person reading it can have some visuals. But amazing! When you choose a best answer put your age there so I can see if I was right. Amazing!

Creating a summer chore list?

My son (5) likes doing chores, so this could make a huge difference. He cleans his sink, toilet, makes his bed, keeps his room tidy, dusts his bedroom, puts away his laundry, swiffer vac's his bedroom, mops his bedroom, wipes the glass doors (finger prints), sets the table, helps unload the dishwasher and fills the bird feeders. Once he is out for the summer I will probably let him start cleaning his own bathroom.

Would best buy fix my broken laptop screen and how much?

Did you buy their replacement warranty? If so, I believe Best Buy will. If not, I would at least take it in and see what they can do. You never know, you might be lucky and they replace it for free. Or they may be able to repair it for less than you think. It's worth a shot!

I am looking for the Polish translation of a phrase form the Bushido codex?

Namely, 'Death before dishonor'. I can translate it myself, but am looking for an official version, if such a thing exist. Thanks!

Should Islam be outlawed?

It shouldn't be outlawed, but all of its immoral teachings should be ignored (like the Bible's mostly are).

HOw to remind yourself that you can be hurt when feeling invincible?

first of just to clarify my psych currently thinks I am in a mixed state and i have been diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder. I'm currently feeling very invicible and impervious to harm while at the same time wanting to feel pain etc. as you can imagine this is very dangerous as I get moments where I want to walk out in front of cars or jump off buildings etc. how can I stop myself from doing this and reduce these urges? Thanks in advance.

How to help a friend in arranged Marriage?

I am a father of daughters 25 and 18 years old. I would rather either of them honor themselves than to honor me. I want them to be happy. Surely your friend's parents would feel the same.

Does anyone know what any of these History events are?

Yes, most of us do. It's all western US history, from around 1850 to 1900. I'm sure that there are references in your textbook.

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Whether God Exists or not, should our goal not be to secure our own Personal Immortality?

That view is incredibly selfish. Good luck with glorifying yourself so you live forever like a god. I will stick with my limited life span like everyone else and do the best to help others with the life I have.

Did I just make my fasting pointless?

Fasting is to have a separate time with the lord to engage in the Spiritual war, fasting can be done in many different ways , water won't brake it , there are partial fasting , using water and fruits if is for a long period of days , water only if is for shorter days or you propose your self no water because you consider there where only few days, don't be deceive the enemy will try to make you think you waisted your time or made it mistake trying to under mind your efforts , he sees that you are beginning to grasp the victory so he will try to stop you from continuing , so keep on pushing until you have that victory, in this walk you learn as you go so now you know that even when fasting the enemy will try to work your mind, for now you are fasting by your own decitions as recomended by your pastor and as the bible also tells us to do, a day may come when the Lord itself may call you to an extended fasting in which the terms of how to do it with or without any comsuption of food or water will be determent by him , so if that day comes just ask him to guide you in how to do it , so keep going nothing you do for the kingdom of God is in vane , the more you seek the Lord the more he will reveal things to you that you can't even imagine and defenetly the enemy don't like you to do that..... Peace !!! May the Lord Bless you and grant your petitions.

Can arthralgia cause severe itchiness?

Could be neuropathy. Also, there is no definitive lab test for lupus. You should see a rheumatologist. Find one at www.rheumatology.org Arthralgia means joint pain. Arthralgia is a symptom of lupus but also of other conditions.

Why didn't aisha's father beat up?

Why are you and so many other people obsessed with Islam? Quick question for you where dose it say in the bible at what age it is okay for a girl to get married?

Am I on the right track to Princeton?? Chance me!?

Not bad, you're looking pretty good if you keep up this level of work. You're looking at about a 1/3 chance of being accepted if you maintain what you're doing and that's almost as high as it gets for the top tier colleges.

What part of body is under left rib cage which can be touched from outside ?

I felt a swelling under my left rib cage since last four years but no pain was there. The swelling persisted whenever I had non veg (esp mutton) and alcohol. Now I started feeling pain at the place of swelling even when I do not have non veg or alcohol and also feel lightheadedness. Pl help to diagnose.

How do u get him to change his mind?

I've been married for 8 years. We've been together for 13 years. Throughout our lives together I have suffered off and on with depression and anxiety, not really knowing what the problem was. He was always asking what's wrong? And I would tell him I don't know. Its not u its me. After several years of pushing him away due to my depression he said he has had enough and that he wanted a divorce. I woke up. Trying to keep my marriage together with this second chance, but still didn't have an actual diagnosis as to what was wrong with me. Things started to get better then the depression got worse. Second chance gone. He has closed me out the way I had for so long. I have been diagnosed with severe clinical depression and anxiety disorder. Now taking medication and I'm getting better. He sees that I'm getting better but doesn't want to let me back in. Help!