Maid of honor is a total B**** of dishonor...what do I do?!?

well if you are saying that you have repeatedly contacted the girl through various media forms and she is not really responding and is vague about cluing you in about what is going on i would be concerned too....sounds like you need to talk to your sister about what is going on then she'll probably talk to the girl and you will then MAGICALLY be included in the loop about what is going on